Predictable Sociopaths?

Sociopaths are actually predictable. They play the same game over and over. Victim after victim. They just add new players. But their strategy is the same every time.  

Sociopaths have a way of making you feel bad for them. They are always the victim. They play the victim role very well. Normal people do not go around telling everyone they meet how abused they were by their last partner... It's something they rather not talk about and are trying to heal from. A sociopath will tell anyone who will listen how abused they were. How they were abused mentally and physically. They do this because they are afraid the real victim may speak of the abuse they suffered at the hands of the sociopath. So by vilifying the real victim, they are hoping to discredit the victim first. And what better way than to play the victim. 

Shame the the real victim, so they are embarrassed to talk about what has happened to them. Then claim to be the one who was abused. Sociopaths add insult to injury in the most cruel and callous ways... 

Female Sociopathy

Female sociopaths come on strong, sweeps us off our feet. She targets us by falsely mirroring our values, interests, goals, philosophies, tastes and habits. She fakes integrity, honesty and sincerity. She plays the role of the victim. We take pity on her. She  does not move slow. A female sociopath will have sex on the first night of meeting.  Before you know it, you are living together.

She is a control freak. She portrays false integrity, appears helpful, comforting, generous in her ‘idealization’ of us phase. It never lasts, she goes from Jekyll to Hyde. Her victims are objectified and disposable. She convincingly mimics human emotions.

Using her lies, manipulation and wearing her mask of sanity, she appears to be a charming “Southern Belle” schemer. 
In the beginning she acts helpless or needy, pitiful, inept or emotionally unable to cope. Even total strangers give her things she gratefully accepts. She is always the victim of someone, rather it be her mother, her absent father, or her ex husband. She is a passive parasite, she latches on and sucks the life out of the normal protector instincts in her male target. When her mask comes off she is cold, cunning, ruthless, evil, predatory, and loveless.

Her black hole of need can never be filled. Understand the mask of helplessness is not the “real her”. If she won’t give reasonable answers to reasonable questions turn and RUN!  Beware and remember she is deadlier than the male, more calculated, destructive and dangerous.  Realize she uses her sexuality as a lure. Avoid any financial or emotional involvement. You are sure to get screwed by her...
She is A Thrill Seeker- she never learns from her past mistakes, even if they have caused problems. Easily bored, she is always on a hunt for new thrills. Her reckless disregard for others endangers them. She has poor impulse control, bad judgment, criminal activity and is probably abusing drugs, pills, anything substance that she can numb her shallow existence with..

She has no remorse, no conscience and no regard for the rights of others. This coward sadistically picks on the vulnerable people, children and the elderly. She believes she is above the law. She is Charismatic. And manipulates others to obtain status, control, compliance, money, attention. She uses effective brainwashing tactics.  She targets the naive, vulnerable, uneducated or mentally weak. 

She falsely portrays herself  to be virtuous, the perfect mother, wife, advisor, mentor, friend. Though she is none. She will stab even her children in the back, to get what she wants. If you are unfortunate enough to be the father of her children - you are screwed. Because she believes she owns you! Even when she moves on, she will never let the father of her children move on. She believes that he must always be at her beck and call. She believes he must support her for the rest of her life. All the support money that is given for the children, she uses for her own personal reasons. 

She will make like unbearable for the father of her children, and any woman he tries to move on with. She will stalk, harass, spread lies and make like so horrible, that she hopes the woman will have enough of her torment and leave. 

Jealousy and Envy

 Sociopaths run their smear campaigns, in an attempt to spread lies about you, and some even go to the extremes of impersonating you, just get a reaction out of you. 

IF YOU REACT - you give the sociopath what they wanted. You give a reason to turn it around on you, and tell others that you are attacking them. 

That's why it's important to not react to the sociopath.  No matter how badly you want to defend you me character. If you really want the sociopath to leave you alone. 

**Then going NO CONTACT is the only way to truly get  the sociopath out of your life completely.

So why do sociopaths want to destroy lives, spread lies, cause conflict, chaos and drama? The answer is pretty simple — “jealousy”

The sociopath is jealous and envious of everyone they know. The believe that everyone has something better than them. So they do anything to sabatoge that persons life by any means.  Sociopaths experience a level of envy toward their targets that is lethal. Whatever the sociopath or  narcissist  sees in you that he/she knows they cannot be, want to be, or with something that he/she views that you have ‘won’ in some way. They feel a incredible amount of envy. Their envy can appear as rage in the smear campaign. Don't ever expect the sociopath to admit they are envious for someone. They have NO SPINE OR BACKBONE  TO DO THAT. 

So they have to sneak around behind your back and do covert things to try to destroy you. Sometime the envy is obvious and sometimes it is not obvious. 

Sociopaths tend to be envious of their ex spouses new girlfriend/boyfriend, husband or wife. And soon the innocent person who is with the sociopaths ex/ex-spouse decides to target the new love. Why?

Because sociopaths are low life scum. They prey on their ex, and anyone in the ex’s life, and even their own children.